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Thu, October 13, 2005 - 3:22 PMWriter. :D In my own little world. -
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Thu, October 13, 2005 - 5:22 PMBelieve it or not, I train people and talk in front of large audiences. So not like me at all. But it's like being in a play. I put on my costume, rehearse my lines, give my performance and then walk back to the office blasting music on my iPod to come down from the whole thing. Luckily I get to set my own schedule 90% of the time, so I can keep myself from being over-extended. The rest of the time, I'm at my desk in my little nook, in my own little world with a desk calculator and Excel. It's pretty damn cool sometimes to act like someone else at work, and then go home and be yourself again. -
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Fri, October 14, 2005 - 8:04 AMI think actor is one of the INFP job recommendations, actually. -
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Thu, November 3, 2005 - 5:01 AMYeah, that makes sense. My love as a musician was live performance, but the audiences didn't exist for me, just the exchange of energy between band and audience. If I actually stopped to realize that there were PEOPLE out there, I'd freeze, lol...
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Thu, April 12, 2007 - 10:16 AMI am a trainer too. But I am thinking to quit my job as I am so tired of doing public speaking in front of lage audience. It is just so overwhelming to act like another person on the stage dealing with so many people in the same time!!!
Besides conducting training programs, I also work as a counselor. LOVE providing counseling to individuals!!!! ALways love to connect to different people on one-on-one basis.
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Fri, October 14, 2005 - 10:39 AMWriter, too. But Angel's job is cooler. :-) -
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Fri, October 14, 2005 - 2:59 PM...an aspiring psychologist, putting my empathy to work. -
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Fri, October 14, 2005 - 10:41 PMi was a mental health counselor and manager in public health, a hotel restaurant manager (not to mention every other position), a rehab. counselor.
now i am semi-retired writing and editing.
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Thu, October 20, 2005 - 10:38 PMComputer geek. I'm shocked that I'm the first one to speak up. -
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Thu, December 22, 2005 - 2:57 PMTech Support in a post production (film) environment. Geek-ish, I guess. :-)
Interacting with clients can be the most difficult part of the job.
I took a course in Surgical Technology and graduated before I discovered that I am an INFP. No wonder it didn't work for me. Still feel a calling to help people, though.
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Thu, October 27, 2005 - 3:01 PMComposer (fulfilling) who works a software QA job (not fulfilling) to pay the bills... -
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Fri, November 4, 2005 - 12:46 AMalso a composer, working in mental health etc...
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Thu, November 3, 2005 - 4:59 AMFulfilling? Errm. Well, that's a differnt story, lol. I have two jobs right now, one is fulfilling, the other I despise. The one I love is photographer. The one I hate is teacher. I made a living for 15 years as a writer, and loved aspects of it (the fiction) which didin't pay much, and finally left because I simply burned out on the professional aspects (technical writing, copywriting, etc). I also spent a number of years as a professional musician, and when I was basically creating my own reality, I loved it. Trying to commercialize it killed it for me :-).
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Sat, November 5, 2005 - 8:33 AMNever-never land ain't so bad,
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Mon, November 7, 2005 - 2:43 AMLol, I only moved here after giving up on actually acknowleging where I physically live, he he he.
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Sat, December 24, 2005 - 7:57 AMteacher
cocktail waitress
camp counselor
yoga teacher
dancer
aspiring writer
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Sat, December 24, 2005 - 4:22 PMI like to be self-employed and do several things instead of relying on just one job.
I used to be a practicing lawyer ... but you asked about jobs we found fulfilling :). As a creative person, I'm glad I know about legal matters (copyright, etc.), but I found it stressful to be in the middle of conflicts between people, which is a lot of what lawyers do.
On to the good stuff ...
Professional astrologer and intuitive counselor
Writer and editor
At one time, I ran a church for a while (they temporarily had no minister) and really liked it, could have been a minister, except I don't want to be tied down to one particular religious/spiritual belief system.
I'd like to include more public speaking in whatever I do. I enjoy the energy going back and forth between the audience and me.
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Fri, December 30, 2005 - 5:17 AMWow, that's interesting. I was drawn to law way back when, and even up to my early 30s considered trying to get into law school. I've always seen it as wildly creative. At least the lawyers I've known have had a...err...wait....ex-lawyers, lol.
Wonder if that says anything :D?
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Fri, March 16, 2007 - 10:45 AMkitty - i wish you'd talk to my mom... she feels she's pigeon-holed into
being a lawyer and doesn't believe in herself enough to do something else.
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Fri, December 30, 2005 - 5:00 AMi currently work in retail which I have not found fulfilling. I would really like to work in crafting/art or landscaping. Or being a sign language interpreter. -
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Mon, January 2, 2006 - 6:09 AMi'm also a dancer in my own world. mainly swing
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Sun, January 1, 2006 - 11:27 PMHorrible. I'm an Administrative Assistant and I hate it. Not only am I introverted, but I have ADD. But this is what I know how to do (going on 9 years). I do need a career that fits more of who I am, but I haven’t found anything that I am interested in yet. -
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Thu, March 6, 2008 - 10:36 AMHi Rose,
I have the same situation. I'm a secretary for a department at the university here and while it pays the bills (barely), it's not something I can see myself doing years from now. I am also introverted (duh, I guess) and I have ADD, which makes the whole detail work of being a secretary something of a struggle. I too crave a career that fits with me, but I only have vague ideas of what that is and how to pursue it.
I'm feeling totally lost and confused about career. I'm two years out of college and I feel like the biggest loser, even though there are probably tons of people in my shoes. What kind of company do you work for?
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Mon, January 2, 2006 - 7:40 AMWriter (novelist—I recently landed an agent. Yah!), Publication Manager (creative and tech writer—to pay the bills), and specialty tea company owner (ExpeditionTea.com—because I love tea).
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Tue, January 3, 2006 - 7:00 AMI work in a library.
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Sun, February 4, 2007 - 2:16 PMIve worked with animals for the last 10 yrs..Veterinary tech and now a Necropsy technician(dead animals). I am currently enrolling to pursue a degree in social service /humanities...I think This will suit me better. I seem to counsel people on a daily basis ...I attract it! Ive always loved to write and draw in my private life. Won two little metals in HS. Hey I was happy !
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Tue, January 10, 2006 - 8:53 PMwow. what an amazing number of writers! i always wanted to be a novelist growing up, but my parents' practicality pushed me in another direction.
fulfilling... i've always loved "being in school" as a career. harhar. now i do nonprofit advocacy. lots of writing, a good deal of "public speaking" or meetings with public officials. it's funny, before reading this thread i never thought of myself as an "actress" but something said earlier really resonated--i too put on a carefully controlled persona when i'm working "in public" that i switch on and off, but i too need "recovery time" in between. and wearing the public face for too long is completely exhausting.
more fulfilling... i still dream of making a living doing something more personal and creative. like photography. and of course, i still write!
hurm. maybe there IS something to myers-briggs...
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Wed, January 11, 2006 - 8:54 AM<I've masturbated to bring my blood on.>
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Wed, January 11, 2006 - 10:54 AMin my opinion, there are no fulfilling "jobs".
but there is work, work that is enjoyable, satisfying and meaningful. among such, i like: making things out of wood. drawing. building one new house. improving on an old house. thinking about where to plant a garden and then doing the digging.
unfortunately, our system is built around money, which means that most of us have to participate in it by doing something that another is willing to pay us for. so we try to adapt our skills to fit into the system. which leads to the unsatisfying experience of feeling like simply another cog in the machine.
i can enjoy many types of work. but i hate doing any of them everyday, for the same amount of time, in trade for a set amount of money.
here's the job i want: i want to dig or saw or hammer for about four hours in the morning. then have a leisurely lunch and head to my studio, where i will draw or design a house or work on some furniture. around 4pm or so, read for a while or write a letter to someone, as i doze off in my chair. then wake to fix dinner (of home-grown vegetables, chicken and goatsmilk) with my wife and friends as my children play in front of the fire. after they are in bed, i stay up late talking quietly with the same friends as we listen to music or watch the fire. perhaps we take a walk about midnight, through the snow. -
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Sat, January 14, 2006 - 9:48 AMYour vision of daily rhythm sounds wonderful to me...
I have just begun my first paid profession as a middle school science teacher. It's very intense (especially as a first-year teacher) and group dynamics do not come automatically to me. However, my strengths of thoughtfulness, research and getting to know individuals get play as well as my idealism and love of people. Still, my fantasy would be focusing on just a few people at a time and having the freedom to take trips, do in-depth projects, etc.
I've done other work in the past and been bored out of my mind--I am now NEVER bored. My biggest challenge is getting myself to do the independent work (of grading and lesson planning) ahead of time instead at the last minute. It's hard for me to do more work after an involving day, commuting, taking care of my kids/house/boyfriend/self...
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Wed, January 11, 2006 - 2:37 PMDamn, talk about cut and paste error. LOL
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Thu, March 9, 2006 - 10:40 AMI was sitting here pondering if that was maybe a signature or what. :) And if not, well, it should be!
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Mon, March 6, 2006 - 12:36 PMRose,
I've always enjoyed your posts. I have to admit though that
some of your typos have been fabulous. ;)
--Chris
PS All of us have too.
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Wed, January 11, 2006 - 3:07 PMfrom what I've read, INFPs being quite introspective, tend to communicate much more easily through written (or I suppose photographed, drawn, etc.) than oral expression. Do you find this to be true? I know I do. When I try to converse, it's like I have to first translate what I hear from words to images, then translate my thots from images to words, which often takes too long to fit into the flow of the conversation. I have recently been reading about left/right/bicameral brain interaction. It seems that what I am doing is converting from left to right to left, speaking being leftbrain, my kind of understanding/thinking rightbrain.
Btw, I am a poet -- have been all my life. However, I am lately working toward giving my self a chance to actualize my art into my profession. I do need to find a sales/marketing style that I can work with since I have a terrible time self-promoting.
Peace,
libramoon
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Wed, January 11, 2006 - 11:08 PMI do write, but its not a job for me - not anything worth anyone reading, but it is something I like to do.
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Thu, March 9, 2006 - 10:43 AMYes, yes and yes. In fact, I often have to tell people that are trying to talk to me while I work that "I'm sorry, I simply can't do both visual and auditory at the same time." I am very put off in my current job from folks that expected immediate knowledgeable verbal responses when they ask me questions instead of giving me any time to thinking through the problem (even when I tell I need a moment to consider the problem).
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Sat, February 10, 2007 - 9:31 AMYes! Somehow my brain can process written words more quickly than spoken. Sometimes when I'm talking to someone, I'll actually "see" the words on a screen in my brain. I don't know why my brain works that way, but it does.
As for me- I'm in school for creative writing, and I also work as a program assistant for a substance abuse program. My job involves speaking to groups of clients, which is somewhat nerve-wracking for me, though I've learned to manage. I also had a small income from reading Tarot cards for a while and really enjoyed that. I feel like a standard 9-5 job doesn't fit me very well, though I don't know how I would pay the bills otherwise. -
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Mon, October 29, 2007 - 8:40 PMI do that as well...ever since I learned to type.
I want to thank the people who have written about teaching and why it didn't work for them. I think you finally put into words what I have been feeling. I am going on my 3rd year and it is agonizing. The correcting and pre-planning make me crazy.
But what next...
Anyone in Human Resources?
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Mon, January 23, 2006 - 5:42 PMI'm a massage therapist and energy worker. Many INFPs just love to shepard people through positive change ;-)
I read in "Please Understand Me" that nearly all the successful writers, not just for books but also TV shows, movies, and plays, are INFP... and that through this influence on pop culture we've managed to convince most of the world that they "should" be interested in self-exploration and development, even though they actually... well, aren't.
Used to be a graphic designer and web developer... I also used to score INTP. So I find it pretty easy to speak from my head. My challenge was learning how to speak from my heart, something I continue to work on.
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Fri, March 3, 2006 - 1:30 PMI'm a writer....I set out ot be a visual artist (hey, somewhere my particular brand of weirdness and epic emotionality might be an asset! ;) I fell into being a writer along the way and I've worked as a waitress, barmaid, in media relations (both freelance and as a team director) and various other things in the music biz, and also in a pain clinic helping people understand the relationship between body & mind (and how our emotions effect pain management). Apparently I'm pretty much a typical INFP work-wise :) I like to define myself as a professional dilettante.
Interestingly enough I'm not shy in regards performance or public speaking - though I most enjoy it when rockin' a persona :) And, I've come to learn to enjoy being overwhelmed in in crowds as long as there's music to unify people and focus on through dancing and feeling. During my life I've been both excruciatingly shy (something I consciously worked to change as a teenager by faking it until I got over the initial fears) and quite outgoing (most people consider me social though I can be hit by rather intense bouts of shyness on occasion when meeting new people in ambivalent situations where the relationship isn't defined).
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Fri, March 3, 2006 - 2:40 PMwell, work as a recruiter right now dealing with people all the time and making plenty of presentations, etc... basically, some field of education or social work for years and higher ed the last few years
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Sat, March 4, 2006 - 8:31 AMi never wanted to work a 9 to 5 job i always wanted to be a struggling artist but the jobs i did have were waitressing jobs one fire safety job wich i think was a scam and a janitorial job....i did volunteer at a hospital when i was in high school that was like my first job thats when i wanted to be a doctor then a nurse......anyways art is my calling and teaching is something i always wanted to do becasue i hated my teachers and i wanted to be better then them but i have a long way to go in order to get there i've always set high goals for myself maybe thats why i disapoint myself often... GREAT EXPECTATIONS -
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Sat, October 13, 2007 - 12:11 PMI might shift my course to Nursing. Is it a fulfilling job for an INFP? What are the pros & cons?
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